Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Interpretation
Expectations can lead to disappointment if not managed properly.
This quote by Elizabeth Gilbert emphasizes the idea that when we set expectations, we may set ourselves up for disappointment if those expectations are not met. It highlights the importance of being realistic and managing our desires, suggesting that our emotional well-being is closely linked to how we approach our expectations in life.
In practice
A motivational speaker discussing the importance of realistic goals.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
Your home is whatever in this world you love more than you love yourself.
You can become a big master in chess only if you see your mistakes and short-comings. Exactly the same as in life itself.
All I can tell you is that you cannot make choices in your own career, either career choices or choices when you're actually working as an actor, based on trying to downplay or live up to a comparison with somebody else. You just can't do that. You have to do your own work based on your own gut, your own instincts, and your own life.
Our deepest calling is to grow into our own authentic self-hood, whether or not it conforms to some image of who we ought to be. As we do so, we will not only find the joy that every human being seeks--we will also find our path of authentic service in the world.
The wisdom of others remains dull till it is writ over with our own blood. We are essentially apart from the world; it bursts into our consciousness only when it sinks its teeth and nails into us.
Consideration is the soil in which wisdom may be expected to grow, and strength be given to every up-springing plant of duty.
The present moment is the substance with which the future is made. Therefore, the best way to take care of the future is to take care of the present moment. What else can you do?
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