You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of compassion towards oneself in moments of self-doubt and unhappiness.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert reflects on her struggle with negative thoughts and how she approached meditation with a new perspective centered on compassion. Instead of labeling herself a failure, she encourages acceptance of her humanity and recognizes that everyone experiences difficulties, highlighting the power of self-compassion in transforming our mindset.
In practice
During a mindfulness workshop, this quote can inspire participants to practice self-compassion.
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
Your home is whatever in this world you love more than you love yourself.
Think about it: Reducing crime and poverty and ensuring that we have an educated, stable work force has a direct effect on you and me and the future of our country.
Have no mean hours, but be grateful for every hour, and accept what it brings. The reality will make any sincere record respectable.
You have to allow a certain amount of time in which you are doing nothing in order to have things occur to you, to let your mind think.
Pain wanders through my bones like a lost fire
But most important of all, she explained that it was all right to say 'No. I disagree.' that was a gift. I understood it was power. The power to think my own thoughts. The power to believe in myself.
And when one of you falls down he falls for those behind him, a caution against the stumbling stone. Ay, and he falls for those ahead of him, who though faster and surer of foot, yet removed not the stumbling stone.
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