You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of compassion towards oneself in moments of self-doubt and unhappiness.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert reflects on her struggle with negative thoughts and how she approached meditation with a new perspective centered on compassion. Instead of labeling herself a failure, she encourages acceptance of her humanity and recognizes that everyone experiences difficulties, highlighting the power of self-compassion in transforming our mindset.
In practice
During a mindfulness workshop, this quote can inspire participants to practice self-compassion.
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
Your home is whatever in this world you love more than you love yourself.
In deep self acceptance, grows a compassionate understanding.
We have no more right to consume happiness without producing it than to consume wealth without producing it.
One cool judgement is worth a thousand hasty councils.
Things that look like shortcuts are actually detours (disguised as less work).
Truth is, of its essence, liberating, as it is possessed of no contrivance or conceit - that it provides the only genuine basis for progress and that the future can only be found in truth.
People who fly into a rage always make a bad landing.
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