Pride is founded not on the sense of happiness, but on the sense of power.
William HazlittRead
The dupe of friendship, and the fool of love; have I not reason to hate and to despise myself? Indeed I do; and chiefly for not having hated and despised the world enough.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses self-loathing due to perceived foolishness in friendship and love, and reflects a broader disdain for the world.
In this quote, William Hazlitt delves into the complex emotions of self-reflection, revealing a profound sense of disappointment in oneself for being naive or overly trusting in friendships and romantic relationships. The speaker grapples with feelings of self-hatred, not only for their own shortcomings but also for their failure to adopt a more cynical view of the world around them, suggesting that such a perspective might protect one from emotional pain.
Themes
FriendshipLoveSelf-LoathingDisdainCynicism
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a personal development workshop to highlight the importance of self-awareness.
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