I can never drive my car over a bridge without thinking of suicide. I can never look at a lake or an ocean without thinking of suicide.
Dying should come easy: like a freight train you don't hear when your back is turned.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that death should be as unremarkable and sudden as a freight train, emphasizing the inevitability and suddenness of life’s end.
This quote by Charles Bukowski reflects on the nature of death as an inescapable part of life that should arrive quietly and unexpectedly, much like a freight train that one does not notice until it is too late. It implies that death, rather than being a dramatic or fearful event, should be accepted as a natural occurrence that can come upon us when we are least prepared. The imagery evoked is powerful, highlighting both the unpredictability and the silent permanence of mortality.
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Example use cases
This quote can be used in a eulogy to emphasize the unforeseen nature of death.
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