A culture fixation on female thinness is not an obsession about female beauty but an obsession about female obedience. Dieting is the most potent political sedative in womenβs history; a quietly mad population is a tractable one.
Naomi WolfRead
What editors are obliged to appear to say that men want from women is actually what their advertisers want from women.
Interpretation
This quote highlights the disparity between societal expectations placed on women and the commercial interests driving those expectations.
Naomi Wolf's quote critiques the media's portrayal of women's roles and desires, illustrating how editors often reflect not the genuine wants of men, but rather the interests of advertisers who shape public perception. This suggests that women's identities and desires are often overshadowed by commercial agendas, pushing a narrative that may not align with reality.
In practice
In a discussion about modern advertising and its impact on women's self-image.
A culture fixation on female thinness is not an obsession about female beauty but an obsession about female obedience. Dieting is the most potent political sedative in womenβs history; a quietly mad population is a tractable one.
Looking back on 200 years of feminist agitation in this country, we've got to get it that the moral high ground doesn't get us anything. Pleading with powerful men never gets us what we need. Talking doesn't do it. Being right doesn't do it. Hardball politics does it ... and a political strategy.
The more legal and material hindrances women have broken through, the more strictly and heavily and cruelly images of female beauty have come to weigh upon them.
The woman wins who calls herself beautiful, and challenges the world to change to fit her vision.
The beauty myth moves for men as a mirage; its power lies in its ever-receding nature. When the gap is closed, the lover embraces only his own disillusion.
Our society does reward beauty on the outside over health on the inside. Women must not be blamed for choosing short-term beauty "fixes" that harm our long-term health, since our life spans are inverted under the beauty myth, and there is no great social or economic incentive for women to live a long time.
The Master said of Gong Yechang, βHe is marriageable. Although he was once imprisoned and branded as a criminal, he was in fact innocent of any crime.β The Master gave him his daughter in marriage. (Analects 5.1)
He could not feel her near him in the darkness nor hear her voice touch his ear. He waited for some minutes listening. He could hear nothing: the night was perfectly silent. He listened again: perfectly silent. He felt that he was alone.
Ten days after the war ended, my sister Laura drove a car off a bridge.
Who you spend your life with-much more so than how you choose to spend it-is the most important decision you can make. Do it right. That's the best advice I can give you.
Rejoice with those who rejoice." I have found that difficult too often. I was much better at weeping with those who weep.
It's too easy to criticize a man when he's out of favour, and to make him shoulder the blame for everybody else's mistakes.
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