Empathy is the faculty to resonate with the feelings of others. When we meet someone who is joyful, we smile. When we witness someone in pain, we suffer in resonance with his or her suffering.
Interpretation
Empathy allows us to connect with and understand the emotions of others.
Matthieu Ricard's quote emphasizes the importance of empathy as a means to connect with others emotionally. It illustrates how empathy enables us to share in the positive and negative feelings of those around us, enhancing our interpersonal relationships and fostering compassion and understanding in a shared human experience.
In practice
This quote could be used in a discussion about emotional intelligence in a workplace training session.
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Why has marriage failed? In the first place, we raised it to unnatural standards. We tried to make it something permanent, something sacred, without knowing even the abc of sacredness, without knowing anything about the eternal. Our intentions were good but our understanding was very small, almost negligible. So instead of marriage becoming something of a heaven, it has become a hell. Instead of becoming sacred, it has fallen even below profanity.
There's a tremendous sense of shame that people who are lonely feel. I say that as someone who felt ashamed of being lonely as a child and even at points during adulthood.
Even though many couples are choosing to marry later in life, our laws haven't been updated to address dating partner abuse.
Every relationship has tough days. Don't let the grudge last. Be the first to try to make things right and stop waiting for an apology.
Whenever I meet people for the first time, I get them to talk for ten minutes. Then I size them up from the exact opposite perspective of all they’ve told me. Do you think that’s crazy? “No,” I said, shaking my head, “I’d guess your method works quite well.
I can see myself watching him shave every morning. And at other time I see us in that house and see how one bright day (or a day like this, so cold your mind shifts every time the wind does) he will wake up and decide it's all wrong. I'm sorry, he'll say. I have to leave now.
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