Child psychology and child psychiatry cannot be reformed. They must be abolished.
Thomas SzaszRead
At every step the child should be allowed to meet the real experience of life; the thorns should never be plucked from his roses.
Interpretation
Children should experience life's challenges to learn and grow.
Ellen Key emphasizes the importance of allowing children to encounter both the beautiful and painful aspects of life. By facing challenges and adversity, children develop resilience, understanding, and appreciation for life's complexities, which contribute to their overall growth and character development.
In practice
During a parenting seminar to illustrate child development.
Child psychology and child psychiatry cannot be reformed. They must be abolished.
The main reason people struggle financially is because they have spent years in school but learned nothing about money. The result is that people learn to work for money...but never learn to have money work for them.
Our message to parents is to focus on the process the child engages in, such as trying hard or focusing on the task - what specific things they're doing rather than, 'You're so smart. You're so good at this.' Although it's never too late to change, what you do early matters.
When you wish to instruct, be brief; that men's [children's] minds take in quickly what you say, learn its lesson, and retain it faithfully. Every word that is unnecessary only pours over the side of a brimming mind.
How is it that little children are so intelligent and men so stupid? It must be education that does it.
Our babies know nothing about hate or racism. But soon they begin to learn - and only from us.
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