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Our message to parents is to focus on the process the child engages in, such as trying hard or focusing on the task - what specific things they're doing rather than, 'You're so smart. You're so good at this.' Although it's never too late to change, what you do early matters.
Carol S. Dweck
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Encouraging a focus on effort and process rather than innate ability can foster growth in children.

Carol S. Dweck emphasizes the importance of recognizing and praising the effort and strategies that children employ in their learning processes rather than solely labeling them as 'smart' or 'good.' This approach not only instills a growth mindset but also underscores that early experiences and messages can significantly impact a child's development and attitude towards challenges.

Themes

Growth MindsetEffortLearningChildrenParenting

In practice

Example use cases

In a parent-teacher meeting, a teacher might say, 'It's important to acknowledge the effort your child put into this project.'

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