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Every woman is supposed to have the same set of motives, or else to be a monster.
George Eliot
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote highlights societal expectations for women to conform to a uniform set of motivations or face stigmatization.

George Eliot's quote reflects the rigid social norms imposed on women, suggesting that society often expects them to possess a commonality in their aspirations and desires. Deviating from this expected set of motives can lead to being labeled as 'monstrous,' illustrating a lack of acceptance for diversity in women's identities and ambitions. Eliot critiques this narrow view, advocating for the recognition of individuality and the complexity of human motivations.

Themes

WomenSocietyMotivesExpectationsIndividuality

In practice

Example use cases

In a women's rights seminar to emphasize the need for individuality beyond societal norms.

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