Know what we did, Lucy? You and me? We spent our whole lives yearning. Isn't that the God damndest thing?
Richard YatesRead
Why did everything always change when all you wanted, all you had ever humbly asked of whatever God there might be, was that certain things be allowed to stay the same?
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses a longing for stability in the face of inevitable change.
Richard Yates highlights the human desire for consistency and stability in life, contrasting it with the relentless nature of change. The speaker's plea to a higher power reflects a deep yearning for certain aspects of life to remain constant, suggesting that the unpredictability of existence can often be unsettling and difficult to accept.
Themes
ChangeStabilityLifeLongingDesire
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about navigating life's uncertainties, one could use this quote to emphasize the challenge of coping with change.
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He found it so easy and so pleasant to cry that he didn’t try to stop for a while, until he realized he was forcing his sobs a little, exaggerating their depth with unnecessary shudders. … The whole point of crying is to quit before you coined it up. The whole point of grief itself was to cut it out while it was still honest, while it still meant something. Because the thing was so easily corrupted
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It's a disease. Nobody thinks or feels or cares any more; nobody gets excited or believes in anything except their own comfortable little God damn mediocrity.
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She just happened to feel like it. Wasn’t that after all, the only reason there was? Had she ever had a less selfish, more complicated reason for doing anything in her life?
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