Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
Rollo MayRead
Evil, in this system of ethics, is that which tears apart, shuts out the other person, raises barriers, sets people against each other.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Evil is defined as actions or behaviors that isolate and harm others, creating division and conflict.
In this quote, Rollo May emphasizes that evil is fundamentally linked to the act of creating separation and hostility between individuals. It highlights how behaviors that exclude or harm others contribute to societal discord and ethical failings, suggesting that true ethics involve fostering connection and understanding among people rather than division.
Themes
EvilEthicsConnectionDiversityHumanity
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about social justice and the importance of inclusivity.
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