Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
M. Scott PeckRead
If we know exactly where we're going, exactly how to get there, and exactly what we'll see along the way, we won't learn anything.
Interpretation
Learning occurs through uncertainty and exploration, not through predefined paths.
M. Scott Peck's quote emphasizes the importance of uncertainty in the learning process. When we have every detail mapped out, we limit our potential for discovery and growth. Embracing uncertainty allows us to encounter new experiences and insights that we wouldn't have identified if we only followed a set path.
In practice
This quote can be used in a motivational speech to encourage students to embrace challenges.
Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
Listening well is an exercise of attention and by necessity hard work. It is because they do not realize this or because they are not willing to do the work that most people do not listen well.
If your goal is to avoid pain and escape suffering, I would not advise you to seek higher levels of consciousness or spiritual evolution.
All my life I used to wonder what I would become when I grew up. Then, about seven years ago, I realized that I was never going to grow up--that growing is an ever ongoing process.
When we love someone our love becomes demonstrable or real only through our exertion - through the fact that for that someone (or for ourself) we take an extra step or walk an extra mile. Love is not effortless. To the contrary, love is effortful.
An unconscious, gentle process whereby people who want to be loving attempt to be so by telling little white lies, by withholding some of the truth about themselves and their feelings in order to avoid conflict. Pseudocommunity is conflict-avoiding; true community is conflict-resolving.
The advice that is wanted is commonly not welcome and that which is not wanted, evidently an effrontery.
Human knowledge has been changing from the word go and people in certain respects behave more rationally than they did when they didn't have it. They spend less time doing rain dances and more time seeding clouds.
A buddha laughs too, but his laughter has the quality of a smile. His laughter has the feminine quality of grace. When an ignorant person laughs, his laughter is very aggressive, egoistic. The ignorant person always laughs at others. The contented person, the person who knows life a little, laughs at himself - at the whole play of life itself. It is not addressed to anybody in particular. He just laughs at the absurdity of it all... the impossibility of it all.
By deafness one gains in one respect more than one loses; one misses more nonsense than sense.
Now is the time when we must renew ourselves and live as if we and all of life is sacred, and as if everything we do makes a difference.
He that will enjoy the brightness of sunshine, must quit the coolness of the shade.
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