Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
M. Scott PeckRead
If we know exactly where we're going, exactly how to get there, and exactly what we'll see along the way, we won't learn anything.
Interpretation
Learning occurs through uncertainty and exploration, not through predefined paths.
M. Scott Peck's quote emphasizes the importance of uncertainty in the learning process. When we have every detail mapped out, we limit our potential for discovery and growth. Embracing uncertainty allows us to encounter new experiences and insights that we wouldn't have identified if we only followed a set path.
In practice
This quote can be used in a motivational speech to encourage students to embrace challenges.
Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
Listening well is an exercise of attention and by necessity hard work. It is because they do not realize this or because they are not willing to do the work that most people do not listen well.
If your goal is to avoid pain and escape suffering, I would not advise you to seek higher levels of consciousness or spiritual evolution.
All my life I used to wonder what I would become when I grew up. Then, about seven years ago, I realized that I was never going to grow up--that growing is an ever ongoing process.
When we love someone our love becomes demonstrable or real only through our exertion - through the fact that for that someone (or for ourself) we take an extra step or walk an extra mile. Love is not effortless. To the contrary, love is effortful.
An unconscious, gentle process whereby people who want to be loving attempt to be so by telling little white lies, by withholding some of the truth about themselves and their feelings in order to avoid conflict. Pseudocommunity is conflict-avoiding; true community is conflict-resolving.
Kindness is the only service that will stand the storm of life and not wash out. It will wear well and will be remembered long after the prism of politeness or the complexion of courtesy has faded away.
The disease that knowledge brings is arrogance, and the disease that worship brings is showing off
Anyone can battle for pride, power, vanity, greed, or hate, but war should always be approached with an equal measure of wisdom and strength. It's not just enough to know when to fight, but to know when to lay down the sword and negotiate. Not everything in the world is worth fighting for.
One paradox of professional writing is that books written solely for money and/or acclaim will almost never be good enough to garner either.
Some wounds run too deep for the healing.
If we are all alive ten years hence, let's meet, and see how many of us have got our wishes, or how much nearer we are then than now.
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