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Family life is too intimate to be preserved by the spirit of justice. It can only be sustained by a spirit of love which goes beyond justice. Justice requires that we carefully weigh rights and privileges and assure that each member of a community receives his due share. Love does not weigh rights and privileges too carefully because it prompts each to bear the burden of the other.
Reinhold Niebuhr
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Family life thrives on love rather than strict justice.

Reinhold Niebuhr's quote emphasizes that the essence of family relationships is rooted in love, which transcends the need for strict justice. While justice is concerned with fair treatment and distribution of rights and privileges, love fosters an environment where family members support and care for one another selflessly, prioritizing the well-being of each over rigid fairness.

Themes

FamilyLoveJusticeRelationshipsSupport

In practice

Example use cases

During a family gathering, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of love over fairness.

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