Standards are always out of date. That's what makes them standards.
Those who have known the famous are publicly debriefed of their memories, knowing as their own dusk falls that they will only be remembered for remembering someone else.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects on the idea that individuals who are associated with famous people may lose their own identity and legacy.
Alan Bennett's quote speaks to the notion that those who are close to greatness may find their own stories overshadowed by the fame of others. In essence, it suggests that in our pursuit of connections with the celebrated, we risk becoming mere footnotes in their legacies, remembered only for our association rather than for our own contributions or identities.
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Example use cases
In a speech reflecting on mentorship, one might say, 'Those who have known the famous are publicly debriefed of their memories...' to highlight the challenge of being overshadowed.
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A book is a device to ignite the imagination.
To read is to withdraw.To make oneself unavailable. One would feel easier about it if the pursuit inself were less...selfish.
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...she felt about reading what some writers felt about writing: that it was impossible not to do it and that at this late stage of her life she had been chosen to read as others were chosen to write.
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