Better guilt than the terrible burden of freedom and responsibility.
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What is the ideal for mental health, then? A lived, compelling illusion that does not lie about life, death, and reality; one honest enough to follow its own commandments: I mean, not to kill, not to take the lives of others to justify itself.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The ideal for mental health involves maintaining a compelling yet truthful perspective on life and reality, while adhering to moral principles.
Ernest Becker suggests that mental health is not about escaping reality, but rather about creating a meaningful illusion that is honest in its representation of life and death. This ideal demands that individuals uphold moral values, such as respecting life, while navigating the complexities of existence. It emphasizes the need for a balanced view of reality that acknowledges both the positives and the negatives without resorting to harmful actions or justifications.
Themes
Mental HealthRealityMoral ValuesIllusionLifeDeath
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a mental health seminar to discuss the importance of creating a meaningful perspective on life.
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