Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
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The feeling of being valuable - 'I am a valuable person'- is essential to mental health and is a cornerstone of self-discipline.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Feeling valuable is crucial for mental health and supports self-discipline.
In this quote, M. Scott Peck emphasizes the importance of self-worth in maintaining mental health. Recognizing oneself as valuable is not only fundamental for overall well-being but also serves as a foundation for developing self-discipline, which can lead to personal growth and resilience in various aspects of life.
Themes
ValueMental HealthSelf-WorthSelf-DisciplinePersonal Growth
In practice
Example use cases
During a workshop on self-esteem, this quote can remind participants of their intrinsic value.
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When we love someone our love becomes demonstrable or real only through our exertion - through the fact that for that someone (or for ourself) we take an extra step or walk an extra mile. Love is not effortless. To the contrary, love is effortful.
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