My children cause me the most exquisite suffering of which I have any experience. It is the suffering of ambivalence: the murderous alternation between bitter resentment and raw-edged nerves, and blissful gratification and tenderness. Sometimes I seem to myself, in my feelings toward these tiny guiltless beings, a monster of selfishness and intolerance.
Each feminist work has tended to be received as if it emerged from nowhere; as if each one of us had lived, thought, and worked without any historical past or contextual present. This is one of the ways in which women's work and thinking has been made to seem sporadic, errant, orphaned of any tradition of its own.
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What this quote means
This quote reflects how feminist contributions are often viewed in isolation, ignoring their historical context and significance.
Adrienne Rich's quote highlights the tendency to regard feminist works as though they appear in a vacuum, without recognition of the historical and cultural influences that shape them. By suggesting that women's thoughts and works are sporadic and disconnected from tradition, the quote critiques the marginalization of feminist contributions, emphasizing the importance of understanding their roots and the continuous lineage of thought that informs them.
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Example use cases
In a discussion on the evolution of women's rights movements, this quote can illustrate the historical foundation of feminist thought.
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