Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
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If you write fiction, you have to love your characters. It's like your family. You don't have to like them, but you have to love them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Writers must develop a deep emotional connection to their characters, viewing them as family, regardless of personal preferences.
This quote emphasizes the emotional investment that authors must make in their characters when writing fiction. Douglas Coupland suggests that, akin to the complex relationships we have with family members, writers should cultivate love for their characters, even if they don’t necessarily 'like' them. This emotional connection is crucial for creating believable and engaging narratives that resonate with readers.
Themes
FictionCharactersWritingLoveFamily
In practice
Example use cases
In a writing workshop, to emphasize the importance of character development.
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