Empathy is like a universal solvent. Any problem immersed in empathy becomes soluble. It is effective as a way of anticipating and resolving interpersonal problems, whether this is a marital conflict, an international conflict, a problem at work, difficulties in a friendship, political deadlocks, a family dispute, or a problem with a neighbor.
When I first started in this field there were all kinds of stereotypes about autism, as if these were children from another planet, or children who had been brought up by wolves, that they weren't part of our population and were somehow separate.
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What this quote means
The quote highlights the misconceptions about autism, emphasizing that autistic individuals are a part of our society and should not be viewed as separate or different.
Simon Baron-Cohen reflects on the stereotypes and misconceptions surrounding autism when he began his career. He points out that many people viewed autistic children as entirely different from others, likening them to beings from another planet or suggesting they had been raised in isolation. This perspective reinforces the importance of understanding and accepting autism as a part of the diverse fabric of humanity rather than as an otherness that alienates these individuals.
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Example use cases
In a seminar on autism awareness, this quote can be used to emphasize the need to challenge stereotypes.
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