For me, it is freedom, freedom from everything: when I write, I'm not a woman. I'm not a Muslim. I'm not a Moroccan. I can reinvent myself, and I can reinvent the world.
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I remember that the first time I looked at my son, of course I felt love. But I think the first feeling was not love: it was fear. Someone is needing me. If something happens to him, what am I going to do? Maybe I won't survive if something happens to him? The fear was as big as the love.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses the complex emotions of a parent, where love is intertwined with fear for the child's well-being.
In this poignant quote, Leila Slimani reflects on the dual emotions that accompany parenthood. While love for a child is profound and immediate, it is often accompanied by an instinctive fear of losing them or being unable to protect them. This fear underscores the depth of parental love, revealing that the two emotions can coexist, highlighting the vulnerabilities that come with caring for another human being.
Themes
LoveFearParentingEmotionVulnerability
In practice
Example use cases
A parent might share this quote during a discussion on the challenges of raising children.
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