We learn our belief systems as very little children, and then we move through life creating experiences to match our beliefs. Look back in your own life and notice how often you have gone through the same experience.
Louise L. HayRead
Forgiveness is for yourself because it frees you. It lets you out of that prison you put yourself in.
Interpretation
Forgiveness is a personal gift that liberates us from our own emotional prisons.
This quote highlights the importance of forgiveness not just in mending relationships, but primarily as a means of self-liberation. Holding onto anger or resentment traps us in a cycle of pain, while forgiving allows us to move forward and find peace within ourselves, freeing us from the burdens we impose upon ourselves.
In practice
In a speech on self-improvement, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of letting go of grudges.
We learn our belief systems as very little children, and then we move through life creating experiences to match our beliefs. Look back in your own life and notice how often you have gone through the same experience.
'Men don't cry!' 'Women can't handle money!' What limiting ideas to live with.
No person, no place, and no thing has any power over us, for 'we' are the only thinkers in our mind. When we create peace and harmony and balance in our minds, we will find it in our lives.
If you want to understand your parents more, get them to talk about their own childhood; and if you listen with compassion, you will learn where their fears and rigid patterns come from. Those people who 'did all that stuff to you' were just as frightened and scared as you are.
I believe we create our own lives. And we create it by our thinking, feeling patterns in our belief system. I think we're all born with this huge canvas in front of us and the paintbrushes and the paint, and we choose what to put on this canvas.
It seems to me that everyone on this planet whom I know or have worked with is suffering from self-hatred and guilt to one degree or another. The more self-hatred and guilt we have, the less our lives work. The less self-hatred and guilt we have, the better our lives work, on all levels.
I beseech you, in the bowels of Christ, think it possible you may be mistaken.
For the people who ostensibly wish me well or are worried about my immortal soul, I say I take it kindly.
Whosoever wisely examines the works of God will speedily discover what is next to be done.
It isn't what we don't know that gives us trouble, it's what we know that ain't so.
Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without.
Of course there is enough to stir our wonder anywhere; there's enough to love, anywhere, if one is strong enough, if one is diligent enough, if one is perceptive, patient, kind enough -- whatever it takes.
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