They had, finally, the only thing anyone really wants in life: someone to hold your hand when you die.
Lorrie MooreRead
When I was in graduate school, I had a teacher who said to me, 'Women writers should marry somebody who thinks writing is cute. Because if they really realised what writing was, they would run a mile.'
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote humorously suggests that writing is a challenging endeavor, not as simple or easy as it seems.
Lorrie Moore's quote reflects the complexities of being a writer, especially for women, implying that those who appreciate writing often do not recognize the dedication and hardship it entails. It humorously highlights the misconception that writing is a charming or easy task, contrasting it with the reality of the struggles writers face, which may lead a potential partner to reconsider their affection for the vocation.
Themes
WritingChallengesWomenPerceptionHumor
In practice
Example use cases
In a creative writing workshop to discuss the realities of being a writer.
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