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No matter that you anticipate a thing; you get so used to it as part of the future that its actuality, its arrival, its force and presence, startles you, takes you by surprise, as would a ghost suddenly appearing in the room wearing familiar perfume and boots.
Lorrie Moore
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Even familiar events can surprise us when they occur in reality.

This quote reflects on the nature of anticipation and the surprising impact of reality. It suggests that regardless of how much we expect an event to happen, the actual experience can still catch us off guard, similar to how an unexpected ghostly presence can evoke surprise even when we recognized the signs of its approach. This speaks to the complexity of human emotions and our relationship to time and expectation.

Themes

AnticipationSurpriseRealityFutureExpectation

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational speech about embracing the moment, one might reference this quote.

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