Attitude is a paintbrush. It colors everything!
Antoine De Saint-ExuperyRead
Grown-ups love figures... When you tell them you've made a new friend they never ask you any questions about essential matters. They never say to you "What does his voice sound like? What games does he love best? Does he collect butterflies? " Instead they demand "How old is he? How much does he weigh? How much money does his father make? " Only from these figures do they think they have learned anything about him.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Adults often prioritize superficial details over meaningful qualities in friendships.
In this quote, Antoine De Saint-Exupery critiques the adult tendency to focus on quantitative and superficial information rather than the deeper, qualitative aspects of human relationships. He suggests that while children consider essential emotional connections, adults are more concerned with numerical data and measurements, which ultimately leads to a misunderstanding of true friendship and companionship.
Themes
FriendshipRelationshipsValuesChildrenAdults
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion on the essence of true friendship, this quote can emphasize the importance of understanding one another beyond superficial aspects.
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