Grown-ups love figures... When you tell them you've made a new friend they never ask you any questions about essential matters. They never say to you "What does his voice sound like? What games does he love best? Does he collect butterflies? " Instead they demand "How old is he? How much does he weigh? How much money does his father make? " Only from these figures do they think they have learned anything about him.
When a mystery is too overpowering, one dare not disobey.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that when faced with an overwhelming mystery, we often feel compelled to follow its call rather than resist it.
Antoine De Saint-Exupery's quote speaks to the powerful allure of the unknown. When confronted with something that evokes deep curiosity or awe, people may feel an irresistible urge to explore or comply with it, highlighting the tension between individual agency and the magnetic pull of the mysterious. This idea can apply to various aspects of life, where the mysteries of existence, emotions, or experiences command attention and respect, ultimately guiding one's choices and actions.
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Example use cases
During a philosophy class discussion on the nature of existence, I referenced this quote to illustrate why we pursue deeper understanding.
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Man is a knot into which relationships are tied.
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