I don't know if there is a personal identity. We all imagine that we are absolute individuals. But when we begin to look for where this individuality resides, it's very difficult to find.
John BanvilleRead
Happiness was different in childhood. It was so much then a matter simply of accumulation, of taking things - new experiences, new emotions - and applying them like so many polished tiles to what would someday be the marvellously finished pavilion of the self.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Childhood happiness is rooted in simple experiences and the joy of accumulation.
In this quote, John Banville suggests that during childhood, happiness is achieved through the collection of diverse experiences and emotions. These experiences contribute to the development of one's identity, represented metaphorically as a beautifully finished pavilion, emphasizing the importance of these formative moments in shaping who we become as adults.
Themes
HappinessChildhoodExperiencesSelfEmotions
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be shared during a parenting workshop to highlight the value of experiences in children's happiness.
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