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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Happiness is fleeting, as our natural tendency is to worry.
In this quote, Alain De Botton reflects on the transient nature of happiness, suggesting that it can rarely be sustained for long periods, particularly because humans are predisposed to worry. This speaks to the underlying anxiety and concerns that often overshadow moments of joy, highlighting a fundamental aspect of human psychology where happiness is often fleeting and worries take precedence.
Themes
HappinessWorryFleetingHuman NatureAnxiety
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a motivational speech about embracing lifeβs brief moments of joy.
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