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Happiness is threatening and misery is safe - safe for the ego. Ego can exist only in misery and through misery. Ego is an island surrounded by hell; happiness is threatening to the ego, to the very existence of the ego. Happiness rises like a sun and the ego disappears, evaporates like a dewdrop on the grass leaf.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Happiness challenges the ego, while misery provides it a sense of security.
In this quote, Rajneesh suggests that the ego thrives in a state of misery because it can define itself in contrast to suffering. Happiness, on the other hand, poses a threat to the ego's existence, as it fosters a sense of unity and dissolution of self-identity, similar to how sunlight evaporates dew. The essence of the quote highlights the conflict between the pursuit of true happiness and the ego's attachment to its own suffering and identity.
Themes
HappinessEgoMiserySelfIdentity
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about overcoming personal challenges, one might refer to this quote to illustrate how embracing happiness can dissolve the ego.
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