If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
If you find it in your heart to care for somebody else, you will have succeeded.
Interpretation
Caring for others is a true measure of success.
In this quote, Maya Angelou emphasizes that the act of caring for others is a significant achievement. True success is not measured solely by personal accomplishments or material gains, but rather by the compassion and love we show towards others. When we open our hearts to care for someone, we enrich our lives and those around us, which is a profound success in itself.
In practice
This quote could be used in a speech about volunteerism and community service.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
We will not go to Heaven,Goetz, and even if we both entered it, we would not have eyes to see each other, nor hands to touch each other. Up there, God gets all the attention.... We can only love on this earth and against God.
The greater good is achieved by not only telling people what they need to know, but also filling them with a sense of empathy and love.
Like a jar you housed the infinite tenderness, and the infinite oblivion shattered you like a jar.
Mr. Rochester, if ever I did a good deed in my life β if ever I thought a good thoughtβif ever I prayed a sincere and blameless prayer β if ever I wished a righteous wish β I am rewarded now. To be your wife is, for me, to be as happy as I can be on earth.
I love him for his sake;_x000D_ _x000D_ And yet I know him a notorious liar,_x000D_ _x000D_ Think him a great way fool, solely a coward;_x000D_ _x000D_ Yet these fix'd evils sit so fit in him_x000D_ _x000D_ That they take place when virtue's steely bones_x000D_ _x000D_ Looks bleak i' th' cold wind; withal, full oft we see_x000D_ _x000D_ Cold wisdom waiting on superfluous folly.
We could say that love is a tenacious adventure. The adventurous side is necessary, but equally so is the need for tenacity. To give up at the first hurdle, the first quarrel, is only to distort love. Real love is one that triumphs lastingly, sometimes painfully, over the hurdles erected by time, space and the world.
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