If you have the guts to be yourself, other people'll pay your price.
John UpdikeRead
To be a human being is to be in a state of tension between your appetites and your dreams, and the social realities around you and your obligations to your fellow man.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Human existence involves a constant struggle between desires, aspirations, and societal responsibilities.
John Updike's quote reflects the complexity of the human experience, highlighting the internal and external conflicts we face. It suggests that being human means navigating the tension between our personal desires and dreams, the societal expectations that shape our lives, and our moral obligations to others. This intricate balancing act defines our actions and decisions as we strive to fulfill our ambitions while remaining considerate of the world around us.
Themes
TensionAppetitesDreamsSocietyObligationsHuman Existence
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the struggles of adulthood, this quote can open a discussion about achieving dreams while acknowledging societal pressures.
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