It's the quality of your relationships that matters.
Robert J. WaldingerRead
Being human means there's a wall-builder in each of us. Our minds naturally divide the world into me and not-me, us and them. For thousands of years, our sages have taught that we're all one, yet we still divide wherever we look.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that as humans, we have a tendency to categorize ourselves against others, despite teachings of unity.
Robert J. Waldinger's quote highlights the intrinsic human inclination to create boundaries between ourselves and others, leading to division. It reflects a paradox where, despite the wisdom imparted by sages throughout history about the fundamental unity of all people, our minds continue to create distinctions of identity and belonging based on personal or group affiliations.
Themes
HumanityUnityDivisionIdentityPhilosophy
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a community meeting to emphasize the importance of inclusivity.
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