People who are more isolated than they want to be from others find that they are less happy, their health declines earlier in midlife, their brain functioning declines sooner, and they live shorter lives than people who are not lonely.
Interpretation
Isolation negatively impacts happiness and health, leading to a shorter life.
This quote by Robert J. Waldinger emphasizes the detrimental effects of loneliness on individuals, suggesting that a lack of social connections can result in decreased happiness, declining health, impaired cognitive functioning, and ultimately a shorter lifespan. It highlights the importance of fostering relationships and maintaining social ties for a healthier, more fulfilling life.
In practice
In a speech about mental health awareness, one might quote Waldinger to stress the importance of community.
Being human means there's a wall-builder in each of us. Our minds naturally divide the world into me and not-me, us and them. For thousands of years, our sages have taught that we're all one, yet we still divide wherever we look.
It's the quality of your relationships that matters.
The good life is built with good relationships.
It's not just the number of friends you have, and it's not whether or not you're in a committed relationship. It's the quality of your close relationships that matters.
It turns out that people who are more socially connected to family, to friends, to community, are happier, they're physically healthier, and they live longer than people who are less well connected.
Most of what we know about human life we know from asking people to remember the past, and as we know, hindsight is anything but 20/20. We forget vast amounts of what happens to us in life, and sometimes memory is downright creative.
Those influences which really make and mar human happiness and greatness are beyond the reach of the law. The law can keep neighbors from trespassing, but it cannot put neighborly courtesy and good-will into their relations.
Our failings sometimes bind us to one another as closely as could virtue itself.
To allow same-sex couples to adopt children and then to label their families as second-class because the adoptive parents are of the same sex is cruel as well as unconstitutional. Classifying some families, and especially their children, as of lesser value should be repugnant to all those in this nation who profess to believe in "family values."
When Ukrainians and Israelis speak to each other, each side respects the other.
We put stereotypes on ourselves. Everybody does that. But I think it's just a little harder for black kids to just be who they are.
By persistently remaining single a man converts himself into a permanent public temptation.
Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.