Time and trouble will tame an advanced young woman, but an advanced old woman is uncontrollable by any earthly force.
Dorothy L. SayersRead
I have the most ill-regulated memory. It does those things which it ought not to do and leaves undone the things it ought to have done. But it has not yet gone on strike altogether.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on the imperfections of memory, acknowledging its flaws while still valuing its presence.
Dorothy L. Sayers highlights the challenges of memory, describing it as unreliable and often neglectful in its duties. Despite these shortcomings, she expresses a sense of appreciation for memory, recognizing that it continues to function in some capacity rather than failing completely, suggesting a nuanced relationship with one's own mental faculties.
In practice
In a conversation about the challenges of aging, I might say, 'As Dorothy L. Sayers noted, I have the most ill-regulated memory.'
Time and trouble will tame an advanced young woman, but an advanced old woman is uncontrollable by any earthly force.
But suppose one doesn't quite know which one wants to put first. Suppose," said Harriet, falling back on words which were not her own, "suppose one is cursed with both a heart and a brain?" "You can usually tell," said Miss de Vine, "by seeing what kind of mistakes you make. I'm quite sure that one never makes fundamental mistakes about the thing one really wants to do. Fundamental mistakes arise out of lack of genuine interest. In my opinion, that is.
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None of us feels the true love of God till we realize how wicked we are. But you can't teach people that - they have to learn by experience.
What is repugnant to every human being is to be reckoned always as a member of a class and not as an individual person.
Treating your adversary with respect is striking soft in battle.
Do not try to make circumstances fit your plans. Make plans that fit the circumstances.
Through indiscriminate suffering men know fear, and fear is the most divine emotion. It is the stones for altars and the beginning of wisdom.
If you believe in living a respectable life, you believe in self-help which is the best help!
Men wrongly lament the flight of time, blaming it for being too swift; they do not perceive that its passage is sufficiently long, but a good memory, which nature has given to us, causes things long past to seem present.
The business (and person) who tries to be everything to everyone ends up being nothing to anyone.
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