Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
Douglas CouplandRead
I'm always looking for things that are so incredibly present that they become invisible.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the idea that things which are ever-present can become overlooked or taken for granted.
Douglas Coupland's quote suggests that in our daily lives, we often overlook the significance of things and experiences that are continuously around us. The notion that something can be so constant that it becomes 'invisible' invites us to reflect more deeply on our surroundings and appreciate the subtle yet profound elements that contribute to our existence.
In practice
In a speech about mindfulness, one could use this quote to illustrate the importance of being present.
Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
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When the world throws you too much information, the only way you can stay sane or survive is to look for pattern recognition. Amidst all the blurs, is there a constellation that emerges, is there a straight line that's emerging?
I'm not patient - and I'm getting more impatient as I get older - but I am disciplined about writing, and I want that on my tombstone: 'He wasn't patient, but he was disciplined.'
If you waste five minutes of time a day, over the course of a year that adds up to one full work day. Think of five wasted minutes as a slow-release holiday drug. Savour it.
When someone tells you they’ve just bought a house, they might as well tell you they no longer have a personality. You can immediately assume so many things: that they’re locked into jobs they hate; that they’re broke; that they spend every night watching videos; that they’re fifteen pounds overweight; that they no longer listen to new ideas. It’s profoundly depressing.
If you want to be fully convinced of the abominations of slavery, go on a southern plantation, and call yourself a negro trader. Then there will be no concealment; and you will see and hear things that will seem to you impossible among human beings with immortal souls.
Ah, what a sign it is of evil life, Where death's approach is seen so terrible!
I look up at the night sky, and I know that, yes, we are part of this Universe, we are in this Universe, but perhaps more important than both of those facts is that the Universe is in us. When I reflect on that fact, I look up — many people feel small, because they’re small and the Universe is big, but I feel big, because my atoms came from those stars.
Human beings are inherently misled into subjective fantasies, but there's a saving grace. We all have different delusions. Other people don't necessarily share yours, and hence they will help you penetrate yours through the miracle of criticism!
The road must eventually lead to the whole world.
In Christianity neither morality nor religion come into contact with reality at any point.
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