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I'm always astounded at the way we automatically look at what divides and separates us. We never look at what people have in common.
Doris Lessing
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote emphasizes the human tendency to focus on differences rather than commonalities.

Doris Lessing's quote reflects on a fundamental aspect of human interaction, where individuals often gravitate towards identifying divisions and separations rather than recognizing the shared experiences and values that unite them. It calls for a more conscious effort to acknowledge and celebrate what binds people together, promoting understanding and empathy in a world where divisive perspectives can dominate.

Themes

UnityCommonalityDiversityEmpathyCommunication

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech addressing social unity, this quote can remind the audience to focus on shared values.

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