Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
I'm drawn to failure. I feel like I'm contending with it constantly in my own life.
Interpretation
The quote reflects the idea that failure is a persistent challenge in life that can motivate personal growth.
Joyce Carol Oates expresses her ongoing battle with failure, suggesting that it is an inescapable part of the human experience. This constant contention with failure can serve as a driving force, pushing individuals to confront their shortcomings and ultimately strive for improvement and resilience in their lives.
In practice
During a motivational speech about overcoming obstacles, this quote could be highlighted to inspire others.
Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
A great attitude does much more than turn on the lights in our worlds; it seems to magically connect us to all sorts of serendipitous opportunities that were somehow absent before the change.
Properly used, positive reinforcement is extremely powerful.
The biggest thing for me is the passion that I've always had for hockey. I remember growing up, no matter what I did in life, my parents always told me to try to do my best at it and be my best. I can say going through different things that that passion is the most important part. It's not skills or talent or any of that stuff.
If you have a past with which you feel dissatisfied, then forget it, now. Imagine a new story for your life and believe in it. Focus only on the moments when you achieved what you desired, and that strength will help you to get what you want.
One day you will wake up & there wonβt be any more time to do the things youβve always wanted. Do it now.
The best pace is a suicide pace, and today looks like a good day to die.
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