Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
I'm nobody's daughter now. I'm through with that.
Interpretation
The speaker asserts independence from familial or social ties.
In this quote, Joyce Carol Oates expresses a strong declaration of self-identity, indicating a departure from previously defined roles as a daughter. It reflects a sense of liberation and personal autonomy, suggesting the speaker has moved beyond the expectations or constraints associated with familial relationships.
In practice
During a speech on personal growth, I could use this quote to emphasize the importance of self-identity.
Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
You don't know who is important to you until you actually lose them.
To say good-bye is to deny separation; it is to say Today we play at going our own ways, but we'll see each other tomorrow. Men invented farewells because they somehow knew themselves to be immortal, even while seeing themselves as contingent and ephemeral.
Stab the body and it heals, but injure the heart and the wound lasts a lifetime.
Love your Neighbour; yet don't pull down your Hedge.
It's all love or sex these days. Friendship is almost as quaint and outdated a notion as chastity. Soon friends will be like the elves and the pixies - fabulous mythical creatures from a distant past.
Never say goodbye because goodbye means going away and going away means forgetting.
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