If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back.
Interpretation
Life requires us to engage and interact, not just receive.
Maya Angelou's quote emphasizes the importance of active participation in life. Simply accepting experiences and opportunities without contributing back can lead to a stagnant existence. Instead, we should give as much as we receive, fostering a cycle of interaction that enriches our lives and the lives of others.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal growth and community service.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Most people are perpetually locked in the present. Their decisions are overly influenced by the most immediate event; they easily become emotional and ascribe greater significance to a problem than it should have in reality.
Men of sense often learn from their enemies. It is from their foes, not their friends, that cities learn the lesson of building high walls and ships of war.
there is no reason why anyone should understand how it works⦠and of course no reason why anyone should care ⦠unless you are curious, in which case I love you, for curiosity about the world and all its corners is a beautiful thing.
As a vulnerability researcher, the greatest barrier I see is our low tolerance for vulnerability. We're almost afraid to be happy. We feel like it's inviting disaster.
My teacher Tom Spanbauer, the man who got me started writing in his workshop, used to say: 'Writers write because they weren't invited to a party.' That always struck so true, and people always nod their heads when they hear that. Especially writers.
One who imitates what is bad always goes beyond his model; while one who imitates what is good always comes up short of it.
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