In a society where the roles everyone plays are obvious, the refusal to conform to any standard will excite interest. Be both masculine and feminine, impudent and charming, subtle and outrageous. Let other people worry about being socially acceptable; those types are a dime a dozen, and you are after a power greater than they can imagine.
Most people are perpetually locked in the present. Their decisions are overly influenced by the most immediate event; they easily become emotional and ascribe greater significance to a problem than it should have in reality.
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What this quote means
The quote suggests that many individuals tend to make decisions based on immediate situations, allowing their emotions to exaggerate the significance of problems.
Robert Greene highlights the tendency of people to be dominated by the present moment when making decisions. This often leads to emotional reactions and a skewed perception of reality, where immediate events can overshadow more rational considerations. By emphasizing the impact of the current situation on decision-making, Greene invites us to reflect on the importance of maintaining perspective and not allowing transient issues to dictate our actions.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about handling stress in decision-making.
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