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Jealousy is the suspicion of one's own inferiority.
Emily Post
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Jealousy often stems from our own insecurities about ourselves compared to others.

In this quote, Emily Post asserts that jealousy originates from a person's internal doubts and feelings of inadequacy. Instead of being a reaction purely to others' actions, jealousy reveals an individual's own vulnerabilities and perceived shortcomings, suggesting that those who experience jealousy may struggle with self-esteem and confidence.

Themes

JealousyInferiorityRelationshipsInsecuritySelf-Esteem

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about relationships, one might say, 'As Emily Post once said, 'Jealousy is the suspicion of one's own inferiority,' reminding us to reflect on our insecurities instead of blaming others.

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