I want to just be lazy and I want some of the people around me to be doing things, because that makes me feel comfortable and safe - and I want some of them to be doing nothing at all, because they can be graceful and companionable for me.
Interpretation
The quote expresses a desire for companionship and comfort through both action and stillness among loved ones.
In this quote by F. Scott Fitzgerald, the speaker articulates a yearning for a relaxed environment where they can feel safe and at ease. The contrast between wanting some people to be active while also appreciating the presence of those who do nothing highlights the importance of relationships that provide both stimulation and serenity, creating a balance that fosters comfort and grace.
In practice
During a cozy gathering, I might share this quote to express my appreciation for both lively conversations and peaceful moments with friends.
Don't be so anxious about it,' she laughed. 'I'm not used to being loved. I wouldn't know what to do; I never got the trick of it.' She looked down at him, shy and fatigued. 'So here we are. I told you years ago that I had the makings of Cinderella.' He took her hand; she drew it back instinctively and then replaced it in his. 'Beg your pardon. Not even used to being touched. But I'm not afraid of you, if you stay quiet and don't move suddenly.
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Give me the gift of a listening heart.
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It is a great misfortune to be alone, my friends; and it must be believed that solitude can quickly destroy reason.
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