When the sage points at the moon, all that the idiot sees is the finger.
Anthony De MelloRead
As you identify less and less with the “me”, you will be more at ease with everybody and with everything. Do you know why? Because you are no longer afraid of being hurt or not liked. You no longer desire to impress anyone. Can you imagine the relief when you don't have to impress anybody anymore? Oh, what a relief. Happiness at last!
Interpretation
What this quote means
Letting go of ego and the need for approval leads to true happiness and ease with others.
This quote by Anthony De Mello emphasizes the liberation that comes from shedding our ego and the constant desire to impress others. By moving away from the fixation on the 'self', we find a deeper connection with those around us and experience true happiness, as we are no longer burdened by the fear of rejection or judgment.
Themes
HappinessEgoApprovalFearLiberation
In practice
Example use cases
During a motivational speech about personal growth and acceptance.
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All quotes →Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.
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The genius of a composer is found in the notes of his music; but analyzing the notes will not reveal his genius. The poet's greatness is contained in his words; yet the study of his words will not disclose his inspiration. God reveals himself in creation; but scrutinize creation as minutely as you wish, you will not find God, any more than you will find the soul through careful examination of your body.
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