Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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In life our first job is this, to divide and distinguish things into two categories: externals I cannot control, but the choices I make with regard to them I do control. Where will I find good and bad? In me, in my choices.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Epictetus emphasizes the importance of recognizing what is within our control versus what is not.
This quote by Epictetus highlights a fundamental principle of Stoic philosophy: the distinction between externals, which are beyond our control, and our internal choices, which are within our control. It encourages individuals to focus on their responses and decisions rather than worrying about external circumstances, as true understanding of good and bad lies in how we choose to react to the world around us.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal responsibility.
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