Relapse is very dangerous. However, relapse can be a symptom of the disease. Sometimes there are multiple relapses before you get sober and stay sober.
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Like most people I knew, I thought drug addicts were the kinds of people we see in doorways in neighbourhoods most of us try to avoid - people obviously strung out, often homeless and possibly psychotic. I didn't think my son could become addicted, but he had.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the misconception people have about drug addiction and its potential to affect anyone, including loved ones.
In this quote, David Sheff expresses the common stereotype surrounding drug addiction, which is often associated with marginalized individuals. He confronts the painful reality that addiction can affect anyone, including his own son, emphasizing the need for a broader understanding of the issue and a shift in perception regarding those who struggle with addiction.
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Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about the hidden struggles of addiction within families.
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Through Nic's drug addiction, I have learned that parents can bear almost anything....I shock myself with my ability to rationalize and tolerate things once unthinkable. The rationalizations escalate....It's only marijuana. He gets high only on weekends. At least he's not using hard drugs.
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