You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
We're all lonely for something we don't know we're lonely for. How else to explain the curious feeling that goes around feeling like missing somebody we've never even met?
Interpretation
We often feel a sense of longing or loneliness for unknown connections or experiences.
David Foster Wallace's quote reflects the profound human experience of loneliness that transcends our immediate relationships. It suggests that we may yearn for deeper connections or understandings, even with people we have never encountered, highlighting a universal search for meaning and belonging in our lives.
In practice
In a speech about mental health, this quote could illustrate the unseen battles many face with loneliness.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
Bliss - a-second-by-second joy and gratitude at the gift of being alive, conscious - lies on the other side of crushing, crushing boredom. Pay close attention to the most tedious thing you can find (Tax Returns, Televised Golf) and, in waves, a boredom like youβve never known will wash over you and just about kill you. Ride these out, and itβs like stepping from black and white into color. Like water after days in the desert. Instant bliss in every atom.
What are the American ideals? They are the development of the individual for his own and the common good; the development of the individual through liberty; and the attainment of the common good through democracy and social justice.
Most of us are shrinking in the face of psycho-social and physical poisons, of the toxins of our world. But compassion, the generation of compassion, actually mobilizes our immunity.
There is nothing more foolish, nothing more given to outrage than a useless mob.
Those who weep for the happy periods which they encounter in history acknowledge what they want; not the alleviation but the silencing of misery.
Diseases of the soul are more dangerous and more numerous than those of the body.
Enslave the liberty of but one human being and the liberties of the world are put in peril.
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