Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
Longevity, like intelligence and good looks and health and strength of character, is largely a matter of genetic heritage. Choose your parents with care.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that many aspects of our life, including longevity, are influenced by our genetic background and the choices we make regarding our families.
Edward Abbey's quote points to the idea that certain intrinsic qualities, such as longevity, are not merely the result of personal choices or lifestyle, but rather are deeply rooted in our genetic heritage. This implies that understanding and acknowledging the role of our ancestry in shaping our lives is crucial, and it humorously suggests the importance of 'choosing' our parents wisely, hinting at the inherent limitations we have in determining the circumstances of our birth.
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In practice
Example use cases
This quote can motivate discussions in health seminars about the genetic factors influencing longevity.
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