A movie camera is like having someone you have a crush on watching you from afar - you pretend it's not there.
Tom StoppardRead
Love is - OK, it's 20 things, but it isn't 19. And I think that love reaches for something which is very, very deep in us and is very easily obscured, and is also very easily denied, which is the instinct towards the other person, other than toward the self.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love is a complex and profound emotion that often seeks a connection with others rather than just oneself.
In this quote, Tom Stoppard reflects on the multifaceted nature of love, suggesting that while it encompasses many aspects, there is a fundamental instinct to connect with others that can be easily overlooked or denied. Love is portrayed as a deep emotional drive that goes beyond self-interest and seeks a genuine bond with another person.
Themes
LoveConnectionEmotionSelflessnessRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding speech, one could quote this to emphasize the depth of love and connection between partners.
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