Love is - OK, it's 20 things, but it isn't 19. And I think that love reaches for something which is very, very deep in us and is very easily obscured, and is also very easily denied, which is the instinct towards the other person, other than toward the self.
A movie camera is like having someone you have a crush on watching you from afar - you pretend it's not there.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote compares the experience of being filmed to having a crush, suggesting a mixture of self-consciousness and performative behavior.
In this quote, Tom Stoppard illustrates the complex relationship between the subject and the observer in the realm of filmmaking. Just as one might feel nervous and performative when a crush is observing them, actors often find themselves trying to ignore the presence of a camera while they perform, leading to a unique blend of authenticity and artificiality in their art. The notion highlights the tension inherent in the act of creation, where awareness of observation can influence genuine expression.
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Example use cases
This quote could be used in a film class discussion about the impact of the camera on actors' performances.
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