We can come to look upon the deaths of our enemies with as much regret as we feel for those of our friends, namely, when we miss their existence as witnesses to our success.
Arthur SchopenhauerRead
Where there is no love, a person's faithfulness to the marriage bond is probably against nature.
Interpretation
Without love, remaining faithful in a marriage may feel unnatural.
Arthur Schopenhauer suggests that the absence of love in a marriage makes true faithfulness problematic. He posits that a genuine emotional connection is essential for the natural expression of loyalty and commitment, implying that marriage without love can lead to a struggle against one's intrinsic feelings and desires.
In practice
This quote could be used during a discussion on the importance of love in relationships.
We can come to look upon the deaths of our enemies with as much regret as we feel for those of our friends, namely, when we miss their existence as witnesses to our success.
To be shocked at how deeply rejection hurts is to ignore what acceptance involves. We must never allow our suffering to be compounded by suggestions that there is something odd in suffering so deeply. There would be something amiss if we didn't.
Almost all of our sorrows spring out of our relations with other people.
Life is full of troubles and vexations, that one must either rise above it by means of corrected thoughts, or leave it.
Our religions will never at any time take root; the ancient wisdom of the human race will not be supplanted by the events in Galilee. On the contrary, Indian wisdom flows back to Europe, and will produce a fundamental change in our knowledge and thought.
We will gradually become indifferent to what goes on in the minds of other people when we acquire a knowledge of the superficial nature of their thoughts, the narrowness of their views and of the number of their errors. Whoever attaches a lot of value to the opinions of others pays them too much honor.
No adolescent ever wants to be understood, which is why they complain about being misunderstood all the time.
You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.
There is a difference between vulnerability and telling people everything about yourself. Vulnerability is a feeling. Telling everyone about yourself is just facts and details.
True forgiveness is when you can say, "Thank you for that experience.
Not afraid of poverty and drabness and who is untouched by it, untouched by the drunkenness of her friends; (she) who judges, selects, discards people with severity, who knows, when she is telling her endless anecdotes, that they are ways of escape, keeping herself all the more secret behind that profuse talk.
Dating or finding someone is the last thing on my mind.
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