Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
She wasn't in love but she would love him, if that would save her.
Interpretation
The quote expresses a complex relationship where love is conditional, hinting at sacrifice and emotional conflict.
In this quote by Joyce Carol Oates, the speaker suggests that although she does not feel love in its purest form, she is willing to embrace a semblance of it to save someone she cares about. This highlights the complexities of human emotions, where love can sometimes be intertwined with obligation, sacrifice, and the desire to prevent harm to others, even if it does not stem from genuine romantic feelings.
In practice
This quote can be used in a literary discussion about complex character relationships.
Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
To be loved because of one's merit, because one deserves it, always leaves doubt; maybe I did not please the person whom I want to love me, maybe this, or that - there is always a fear that love could disappear.
But oh! as to embrace me she inclin'd, I wak'd, she fled, and day brought back my night.
When you find yourself with the Beloved, embracing for _x000D_ one breath, in that moment you will find your true destiny. _x000D_ Alas, don't spoil this precious moment. _x000D_ Moments like this are very, very rare.
But I can tell - let truth be told - That love will change in growing old; Though day by day is nought to see, So delicate his motions be.
It was my destiny to love and say goodbye.
There is nothing wrong with going to bed with someone of your own sex.
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